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How Fun Can Keep a Relationship Solid
So we’ve all read articles on relationships, the “What Will Keep Them”, “Are You Soulmates?” and the How-To’s. I know I’ve read a billion of them, but no matter what advice is giving or outcome of the survey, I still end up puzzled with the age old question : WHAT IN THE WORLD HAS KEPT THEM/US TOGETHER SO LONG?? I’ve noticed most people take the cop-out answers like “Well I’ve been with him/her forever without defining the truth of the relationship or we have kids” etc etc. What does that really have to do with the healthy LONGEVITY of your relationship? I mean, have you REALLY stepped outside of your…
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The Double Standard Men vs Women
Why is that when women get fat they are immediately unaccepted and unattractive? Men can gain a million pounds and they can still demand a woman with a flat stomach along with being seen as a protector. When a man becomes heavy no one blames their self-esteem or openly criticizes. Women have a lot of pressure to stay looking, feeling, and acting a certain way. Then when we fall short here comes all the negativity. As a woman you have so many elements that contribute to weight gain or loss. We are full of hormones and not to mention genetics that play a huge part in our appearance…
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Where is the Trust Today in Relationships?
I find it that a lot of women/men I know check their mates electronic devices, social networking sites, and pockets. Since when did we leave the girl/boyfriend role and become sleuths. Why do some women and men choose partners that they have to investigate? Some would say people chose a certain type of person who they can predict the outcome from. So if you are choosing from that alone the investigation is a waste of time because you knew they weren’t shit to begin with. Also how does checking up on a anybody make the relationship better? If someone is checking on me constantly in my relationship I would feel…
