VIA DFTM 10 TIPS 1. Not returning sexual favors Women often complain about men who gladly accept oral pleasuring, but never return the favor. Being a selfish lover can be an intimacy killer because one partner cannot be expected to continually please the other while not being pleasured themselves. Although you may get incredible sexual gratification from your lover’s abilities, just remember that she needs some attention too. 2. Insufficient foreplay At one time or another, we’ve all experienced a moment so passionate that wasting time on foreplay was unthinkable; however, getting caught up in the heat of the moment is quite different from pouncing on her out of nowhere, and cutting straight…